Online dating has been around almost as long as the internet itself. It continues to be one of the most popular ways for singles to meet new people. Thanks to better technology, online dating sites now offer more than just exchanging messages — users can chat, send videos, and even video call before meeting in person.
“Online is still one of the best ways to meet people who are seriously searching for love,” says Amy Schoen, a professional dating and relationship coach and founder of Motivated to Marry.
If you’re considering online dating, choosing the right platform is key. Just like people, dating sites have different personalities and features. Finding the best one for your goals might take some exploring.
Here’s a breakdown of eight popular dating websites and apps that offer free options — though many also have paid upgrades.
1. Bumble
Best for: People in a hurry
Bumble is fast and easy to use. The app uses a swipe feature — swipe right if you’re interested or left if you’re not. For heterosexual matches, only women can start a conversation. In same-sex matches, anyone can message first.
The basic features are free. Users can search profiles, match with others, and chat without paying. Premium versions offer extra features like filtering matches based on specific traits, such as education level.
Cost: Free for basic use. Premium upgrades vary by location and plan. The average user pays about $21.37 per week. A lifetime membership reportedly costs around $250.
2. Facebook Dating
Best for: Facebook fans who want a seamless experience
Facebook Dating is a free feature within the Facebook app. Your dating profile stays separate from your main Facebook account, and your friends won’t see your dating activity.
One unique feature is “Secret Crush.” You can choose up to nine Facebook friends or Instagram followers as secret crushes. If they also join Facebook Dating and list you, it’s a match — and you’ll both be notified.
Cost: Completely free with an active Facebook account.
3. Hinge
Best for: Creative daters looking for deep connections
Hinge is free to download and use, but it also offers a paid premium version. The app is available only on mobile devices and markets itself as “designed to be deleted,” meaning it aims to help people find long-term relationships.
Hinge encourages users to fill out detailed profiles, including fun prompts. You can share your virtues (interests and hobbies), vitals (location, children, etc.), and vices (whether you smoke, drink, or use substances).
Cost: Basic use is free. Premium plans start at $32.99 per month, with discounts for longer commitments (three- or six-month plans).
4. Match
Best for: Serious daters willing to invest in love
Match is one of the oldest and most recognized dating websites. While it isn’t completely free, it offers a 72-hour trial and allows users to create and browse profiles at no cost.
To send messages after the trial, you’ll need to pay. Match has both standard and premium pricing plans. A standard three-month plan typically costs around $35.99 per month. Longer plans are available for lower monthly rates.
Cost: Free to browse and try for 72 hours. Paid plans vary in price and length.
5. OKCupid
Best for: People who want to know a lot before meeting
OKCupid is known for its deep profiles and insightful questions. The basic version is free, and users can view profiles and send messages. However, paying for a premium account unlocks features like unlimited likes, no ads, and the ability to see who has liked your profile.
Users answer personal questions and can add comments to their responses. This helps you get a better idea of someone before messaging them.
Cost: Free for basic use. Premium plans start at around $45 per month, with discounts for longer commitments.
6. OurTime
Best for: Singles over 50
OurTime is a dating site for people 50 and older. It’s designed to help seniors connect and form meaningful relationships. While browsing profiles is free, messaging requires a paid membership.
The platform is easy to navigate and caters to the needs of mature daters.
Cost: Around $35 per month. Six-month plans bring the monthly cost down to about $16.
7. Plenty of Fish (POF)
Best for: International dating and wide variety
Plenty of Fish offers a large selection of profiles and is free to join. Users can send and receive messages without paying. However, paid upgrades unlock more search filters and an ad-free experience.
POF may be especially helpful for users open to meeting people from different countries.
Cost: Free for basic features. Paid plans range from about $20 per month (for three months) to $10 per month (for a 12-month plan), paid upfront.
8. Tinder
Best for: Quick, casual connections
Tinder is a widely used app that focuses on fast decisions. You swipe right if you like someone, or left if you don’t. If both users swipe right, it’s a match, and they can chat.
Tinder shows limited information about users. It’s best for those comfortable with deciding based mostly on photos and a short bio.
Tinder has three paid tiers: Tinder Plus, Gold, and Platinum. The app doesn’t share pricing openly, and costs can range from $20 to $40 per month. An exclusive $500/month version is available by invitation only.
Cost: Free for basic use. Premium plans cost more depending on features and location.
Summary
Online dating gives you many ways to meet new people. Whether you want a quick swipe, a deep conversation, or a lasting relationship, there’s a platform for you. While many sites have paid options, most offer enough free features to help you get started without opening your wallet.
Take your time, explore a few apps, and see what fits your personality and goals. You might just find your perfect match.
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